Al-Adab Al-Mufrad, Book 17, Hadith 344 (English) ⓘ

Ibn 'Awn reported, "They used to say, 'Do not honour your guest in a way which will be burdensome for him.'"

حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الْمُثَنَّى، قَالَ‏:‏ حَدَّثَنَا مُعَاذٌ، قَالَ‏:‏ حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ عَوْنٍ، عَنْ مُحَمَّدٍ قَالَ‏:‏ كَانُوا يَقُولُونَ‏:‏ لاَ تُكْرِمْ صَدِيقَكَ بِمَا يَشُقُّ عَلَيْهِ‏.‏

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also referenced under: Hadith 344 (Reference) & Book 17, Hadith 1 (In-Book)