Sunan Ibn Majah, Volume 5, Book 33, Hadith 3687 (DarusSalam) ⓘ
It was narrated from Jarir bin Abdullah Al-Bajali that the Messenger of Allah said: "Whoever is deprived of gentleness, he is deprived of goodness."
حَدَّثَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ، حَدَّثَنَا وَكِيعٌ، عَنِ الأَعْمَشِ، عَنْ تَمِيمِ بْنِ سَلَمَةَ، عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ هِلاَلٍ الْعَبْسِيِّ، عَنْ جَرِيرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ الْبَجَلِيِّ، قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ " مَنْ يُحْرَمِ الرِّفْقَ يُحْرَمِ الْخَيْرَ " .
also referenced under: Hadith 3687 (Reference) & Book 33, Hadith 31 (In-Book)