Sahih Muslim , Book 33, Hadith 262 (In-Book) ⓘ
It has been narrated (through a different chain of tranmitters) on the authority of Jabir who said: The Messenger of Allah forbade that a man who had long absent should come to his family like (an unexpected) night visitor.
وَحَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ بَشَّارٍ، حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدٌ، - يَعْنِي ابْنَ جَعْفَرٍ - حَدَّثَنَا شُعْبَةُ، عَنْ عَاصِمٍ، عَنِ الشَّعْبِيِّ، عَنْ جَابِرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ، قَالَ نَهَى رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم إِذَا أَطَالَ الرَّجُلُ الْغَيْبَةَ أَنْ يَأْتِيَ أَهْلَهُ طُرُوقًا .
also referenced under: Hadith 715 (Reference) & Book 20, Hadith 4730 (USC-MSA)